At a point in life, a sane individual becomes dissatisfied with status quo and routine, They want to seek their purpose and pursue their dreams likewise. That's where these questions come up- What do I want to become in life and how do I aspire to achieve success in life and career? You'll get answers to these questions on this page.
Can you remember the story of a wise old man and a lad with a butterfly in his grip? The wise old man told the lad that it's either the butterfly suffocates in his grip or he releases his grip for it to live. Whatever happens to the butterfly depends on the lad, which means that your life is in your hands.
Your life was given to you as a gift to be treasured and you are like a captain steering the course of your life. You have to treasure this gift and make the most out of life. In addition, the following ways will help you to figure out the course of your life:
• Are you living out your childhood dreams?
Fundamentally, the future begins from childhood. Observant parents can easily know the dream of a child from age three and above. The whites are so good at this that they buy their children toys and books in line with their dreams. Moreover, when you live out your childhood dreams, you will get a clear picture of what you want to become in life. If a person walks confidently in the direction of his dreams, he will definitely reach the peak in life and in career.
Did you know that success in life is not like a dream of the night? And knowing the path to tread is the answer to your aspirations. Before we continue, you need to ask yourself some questions:
• Am I ready to face my destiny?
• Am I taking responsibility?
• Does my lifestyle guarantee success?
Having answered these questions sincerely, here are more ways to figure out the course of your life:
• Your life is a work in progress
As a job seeker, you have to understand that your life is a work in progress. You can only wish to achieve success at an instant which is not possible because success is not magic. Hence, don't be frustrated on the journey but live in the moment and anticipate the best in your life and career. With this, your dreams will unfold easily.
• Look out for self destructive behavior
These behaviors are red lights to living out your dreams because they tend to shift your focus off your aspirations to addiction. A job seeker should avoid behaviors like; procrastination, alcoholism, food addiction, media addiction, materialism, perfectionism and irresponsible behavior. Moreover, if you are determined to live out your dreams, begin to deal with self destructive behaviors.
• Your choice matters
The choices you make in life determines if you will win or lose. You have to pay attention to your choices in life because they equal consequences.
• Your success definition
What is your definition of success? Is it a good job and a luxurious house? Is it financial security? Success is living out your dreams and figuring out the course of your life.
Nevertheless, many scholars have defined success in various ways but it is your responsibility as a job seeker to have a personal definition of success.